After a move into an assisted living community, it’s common for Mom to say she wants to come home. Here’s how to help her settle in. Your MoveMyMom Advisor can help with every step, and our help is always at no cost to families.
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For many Moms, “home” isn’t really the house. It’s the feeling of being in charge of her own day, surrounded by familiar things and people. When she says she wants to go home, she may be saying she feels lost, bored, or scared. Answering the feeling (“It’s a lot of change, isn’t it?”) usually works better than arguing about the house.
If weeks go by and Mom is still withdrawn, not eating, or more confused, talk with the community’s nurse and her doctor. Sometimes a medication change, a hearing aid adjustment, or treatment for depression helps. If memory loss is part of the picture, ask whether a memory care setting would be calmer for her.
If you’re still setting up her apartment, a senior move manager can help Mom choose the familiar things that matter most. Your MoveMyMom Advisor is here if you need us.
It varies. Often a few weeks to a few months.
Talk with staff first. A visit back can be hard early on, so ask how Mom is settling in before you plan one.
Mom’s next chapter can start with one phone call. Get started here or call 877-575-9900 today.
