12 Things to Pack (and 12 to Leave Behind) for Dad's New Apartment

Assisted living apartments are smaller than most homes. Here’s a practical list. Your MoveMyMom Advisor can help you think it through, and our help is always at no cost to families.

Talk to your MoveMyMom Advisor

📞 877-575-9900

12 Things to Pack

  1. Medications and a list of them
  2. Glasses, hearing aids, and dentures, labeled
  3. Comfortable clothes for a week or two
  4. Non-slip shoes
  5. A favorite chair
  6. Bedding and a familiar blanket
  7. Family photos
  8. A few books or hobbies
  9. A small TV or radio
  10. Toiletries
  11. A calendar and clock
  12. Important documents (copies)

12 Things to Leave Behind

  1. Extra furniture
  2. Most kitchen items
  3. Throw rugs (trip hazards)
  4. Large amounts of cash
  5. Valuable jewelry
  6. Holiday decorations (beyond a few)
  7. Tools
  8. Extra linens
  9. Old paperwork
  10. Duplicate items
  11. Space heaters (ask the community)
  12. Anything the community doesn’t allow

Ask the Community

Every community has its own rules. Ask for a list.

Measure Before You Pack

Ask the community for the apartment’s floor plan and measurements, including the closet. A move manager can map out where Dad’s recliner, dresser, and TV will go, so nothing arrives that doesn’t fit. They can also be the one to tell Dad, kindly, which pieces won’t fit, so that conversation doesn’t fall on you.

Label Everything

Put Dad’s name on clothes, glasses cases, hearing aid boxes, canes, and walkers. Shared laundry and busy dining rooms make it easy for things to wander.

Make It Feel Like His

The familiar matters more than the new. His own blanket, a favorite lamp, the clock from the kitchen, and pictures of family can make the first night easier. If he had a workshop or a hobby, bring a small piece of it, like a model kit or a toolbox of safe tools, if the community allows.

The First-Night Bag

Pack a separate bag with medications (and a printed list), pajamas, a change of clothes, toiletries, phone and charger, glasses, and hearing aids. Keep it with you, not on the truck.

Check the Rules

Many communities limit space heaters, extension cords, and certain appliances. Ask for the list before packing so nothing has to be sent home.

Frequently Asked Questions

Usually, yes. Measure the new apartment first and bring the pieces he uses most.

Yes. Labels help with laundry and keep Mom’s clothes from getting mixed up with someone else’s.

Take the First Step Today

Getting Dad settled is the goal, and we’ll help you get there. Call 877-575-9900, or share a few details online and we’ll reach out.